Setting Your New Year’s Intentions for Experiencing Great Intimacy

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Setting Your New Year’s Intentions for Experiencing Great Intimacy
By Karinna Kittles-Karsten

Are you ready to experience a great love life this year?

Great intimacy consists of a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual connection shared between two people who both desire and are willing and capable of being great lovers to each other. If you are ready to have such a relationship, then this is a perfect time to set your intentions for having a great love life this year.

If You Are Single:

It is important to know what you want physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually in a partner so that you can easily identify the right one for you. Set your intentions to attract your right partner based on your findings.

For instance, your intention may be to have a passionate and meaningful sexual relationship, an easy, emotionally communicative relationship, and/or a strong spiritual relationship sharing your own beliefs, rituals, and practices together.

Also include your personal intentions for growing as the right partner for someone else this year. Your personal intentions can include: more humor, a greater ability to be honest and honor your needs, to feel more confidence with your physical body, and/or to have more fun with your sexual expression.

If You Are in a Relationship:


Intentions can be made on your own, but they can be even more valuable to your relationship if they are made with your partner. Talk about what you would like to enhance in your relationship together.

For instance:
Do you want to create more quality, intimate time with your lover?
Would you like to have more romance or more dates with your lover?
Do you want to have better, more exciting and/or more frequent sexual intimacy?
Do you want to create a spiritual relationship with your lover?
What else would you add to these intentions?
What areas of deeper intimacy in you needs to be developed to make your intentions for your relationship happen?

Make your intentions and then make them a reality with your lover this year!

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About The Author: Karinna Kittles-Karsten is an internationally recognized relationship expert and author of the new best-selling book "Intimate Wisdom, The Sacred Art of Love." Her appearances on TV, radio, and in print has helped millions develop better intimacy and create more satisfying relationships. For more information go to SacredLove.com at: http://www.sacredlove.com/

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Cheating Women. Why Do They Do It?

Why do some women cheat? Can you stop cheating women? More women are choosing to cheat on their partners than ever before. This article will list the main reasons why some women cheat.

1. Revenge. Although you didn't sleep with someone else, you may as well have. You have broken her trust in some other way. Cheating women often sleep with someone else to pay you back for that dodgy investment or the lie she caught you out on. Apologize profusely and hopefully she will forgive you instead of joining the cheating women society.

2. Feeling unappreciated. Do you treat your wife or girlfriend like an unpaid nanny? Do you ever thank her for all those boring chores she does in and out of the house? What is she doing while you are playing golf? Housework? Minding the children? Seeing someone else? Cheating women often do so because they feel totally neglected at home. Show her you do appreciate her. Say thank you. Notice what has been done. Give her some help. Cheating women are looking for some appreciation and thanks.

3. The honeymoon is over. Another motivator for cheating women is that they are not getting enough sex at home. Once that sexual glow has gone and the sex becomes less frequent, cheating women look for it elsewhere. Try and put some time aside for sex. Go to bed early instead o f falling asleep in front of the TV could be all you need to do.

4. Boring sex. Cheating women often say that it is the excitement of the affair that is the big attraction. Sex at home has become boring and routine. Try and put a spark back into your sex life so that your partner need not leave home to find sexual adventure. Cheating women love the thrill of the illicit affair.

5. Low self esteem. Having someone pay attention to you can really boost your ego. Cheating women are often looking for the flattery they are not getting at home. Pay your partner some attention, flatter her, and prevent her from becoming a cheating woman.

6. No intimacy. All women need to feel close to their loved ones. Cheating women have given up on getting it from their partners and are looking elsewhere. Hugs, kisses, massages, all will make her feel closer to you.

7. No emotional input. Women need you to talk about your emotions. You may think it is worse than going to the dentist. Cheating women are looking for the emotional feed back they are not getting at home. Cheating women can be prevented just by expressing your emotions.

8. You cheated first. Cheating women are often paying back their husband for his sexual infidelity. Sexual revenge is a huge motivator for cheating women. This kind of tit for tat is only going to hurt you both.

9. Sayonara. Some cheating women have already mentally left the relationship and are looking for the replacement. Emotionally, this cheating woman has already left you. She probably isn't planning on staying.

With some attention and flattery your partner need not join the lengthening list of cheating women.
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